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What did it mean to be going steady in 1948? On Valentine's Day, it might have meant snuggling up to your sweetheart in the front seat of a two-tone Pontiac, listening to Dinah Shore on the radio and opening an embroidered cardboard box from Schraft's to reveal a massive pound cake painted with pink-and-white frosting.
Wrapping up one's affections in a heart-shaped box tied with a big red bow has been common Valentine's Day practice since the late 19th century, but chocolate's a relatively recent addition to the love-struck holiday scene. Before the advent of affordable, mass-produced chocolate treats, most celebrants made do with an array of other sugary confections, including marshmallows, candied cashews, jellied fruit, honey glycerin drops, butterscotch chips, coconut strips, caramels, toffee and pound cakes.
"Boxes of sweetness will sell whether they are advertised or not," a New York Times marketing columnist decreed in 1965, summarizing the inseparability of sweet treats and Valentine's Day.
Back in Great Britain, where the Roman festival was popularly resurrected in the 1600s, handmade cards were considered the quintessential Valentine's gift. Early Americans initially followed suit, exchanging simple cards festooned with arrows and bows. But as the New York Times reported approvingly in 1894, "Valentines have taken on some new phases. There are fewer of the old-fashioned lace paper atrocities, and fewer sentimental ones, in which heart and dart and love and dove are the chief ingredients."
Instead, the correspondent continued, the city's inventive confectioners had found new ways for the smitten to render their feelings edible. A heart-shaped satin box with a fitted glass top – described as a "dainty casket" – housed a half-inch of pale pink fondant, edged with clusters of candy roses. Another box, "composed of the very choicest candy," was emblazoned with the slogan, "Will you be my Valentine?"
In 1902, heart-shaped candy boxes had become so popular that the paper didn't attempt to list all the available varieties: "It would be impossible to mention all the pretty conceits appropriate for valentines to be found at the confectioner. Heart-shaped boxes are among the most elaborate. They may be had of a size to hold five pounds, or so small that they will scarcely contain an eighth of a pound," the Times reported.
Candy-makers didn't have a monopoly on heart-shaped boxes: Florists adopted the shtick, too. In 1933, when most paramours' paychecks couldn't cover the cost of roses, florists packed armfuls of violets into red boxes adorned with angel cutouts.
But the vast majority of courted women expected candy on Valentine's Day, a preference in keeping with the nation's tastes. "There is something in American life that demands an extra amount of sugar," the Times theorized. In the first years of the 20th century, domestic candy consumption doubled, with Americans, in 1910, spending $500,000,000 on sweets – and that was before most candy fans had added chocolate to their repertoires.
For most of western history, chocolate was consumed only by the very wealthy. But new production techniques borrowed from other booming industries drastically reduced the cost of chocolate manufacturing, allowing Milton S. Hershey to make his first bar in 1895. The Hershey Bar jumpstarted a bit of a golden age for mass-produced chocolate, during which brownies, white chocolate and chocolate coating made their first appearances.
Chocolate's popularity was cemented during World War II, when billions of bars were distributed to servicemen. Returning vets, infatuated with the snack, presumably decided their darlings deserved milk chocolate too: Heart-shaped boxes of all sizes began to be dominated by chocolate-covered creams, chocolate-covered nuts and plain chocolate nuggets. By the 1970s, the National Confectioners Association reported that chocolate accounted for 90 percent of Valentine's sweets sold.
The recession didn't impede holiday chocolate sales in 2009, with lovers buying more than 58 million pounds worth for Valentine's Day. But should the price of a heart-shaped box seem a bit too steep this year, there's always frosted pound cake.















2-05-2010 @5:52PM Keith said... I bought my wife flowers today. Didn't want the cliche of feeling compelled to get them on V Day. I'll give her a card and twizzlers for VDay
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2-06-2010 @4:40PM dr.sausage said... gohed! wait till twizzler's day and hallmark her...there was a roman ban on marriage.st. valentine was marrying people.if the romans found out you were married, they would cut out the husband's heart and send it to the bride in a box.this was ok with the pope.
2-05-2010 @10:45PM basketpam said... Hey, folks, don't forget those single family and friends of yours, especially the women. Valentine's Day is ESPECIALLY hard on us single women, particuarily after we've been in relationships before and are used to receiving or at least having someone recognize us. This is one day that the thought really does count. I remember one year I was 19 years old, away in college hundreds of miles away and at that particular time not dating anyone. I go to the post office on a cold windy ugly day and there's a box from my mom for Valentine's day. Nothing fancy or elaborate. A cheap little Winnie-the Pooh pin with a heart since I collect pooh bear, a little candy and a card and a few dollars. I felt as if I had received the Taj Majal. I was sort of homesick anyway and not all that happy at school and just that little box of things made me feel so loved. So guys, remember those sisters and daughters of yours. Don't leave it up to some dumb guy who probably isn't worthy of them anyway. And if they're single, definitely make an effort, even just a card. It's those little things in life that they will remember LONG after any boyfriend has disappeared.
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2-06-2010 @7:02PM ann said... I am talking to the person who told the sweet story about being away at college and receiving the Valentine from their mom...You are a nice person, I hope life has treated you well. As a mother of two grown daughters; I know and appreciate your story. I have been lucky in love, so for me, to think of someone lonely and frustrated ( especially if it is someone you love) is a heartbreaker. I never take love for granted. To be loved, to love and to feel love is a human need as well as a gift.
Happy EVERY Day
2-05-2010 @10:45PM Wolf E said... Gee, I am 54, lead a relatively active life and don't consider myself uninformed about most things in life, but I honestly can say, and I have lived both on the west and east coasts, have never, ever seen a frosted pound cake. Not even on Valentine's day. I have eaten plain old pound cake, but never with any frosting on it. What gives?
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2-06-2010 @3:45PM Cut the bull, you know it's true... said... We give candy on Valentine's Day to get laid.
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2-06-2010 @4:43PM Steve said... I always get my sweet a box of chocolates and hard on
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2-06-2010 @4:45PM dr.sausage said... MAYFLY54, NOBODY GIVES A FLYING FROG.DO YOU REALLY WE'RE WERE GOING TO .COM AND GOOGLE TO READ SOME SOFTSOAP SOMEBODY GAVE YOU HOPING TO GET A SNIFF OF THE WHIFF?
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2-06-2010 @4:51PM Chuck said... I have been a retail florist for almost 50 years now retired even though I made money on the day of love and worked my A-- off. I never like it and still don't however I will be hitting the design table next week to help one of the shops that I sold, try to stay in business.
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2-06-2010 @8:18PM cliff said... i have a wife and 3 daughters i have had a tradition for the last 30 years i give each of them a box of candy now i have 3 granddaughters i will have to do it for
i have not missed a year
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2-06-2010 @7:57PM Charlie said... My father in law started his own tradition years ago. He had 3 daughters and told them that they could have a box of chocolates on Valentines day or wait until the next day and get a box that would be twice as big. That big box always was the winner. Amazing how the price drops a day later.
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